How Liam Payne's ex Cheryl Cole played 'peacemaker' to reunite One Direction before his emotional funeral

How Liam Payne's ex Cheryl Cole played 'peacemaker' to reunite One Direction before his emotional funeral
Cheryl Cole helped smooth over tensions among Liam Payne's ex-One direction bandmates and has been a rock to his parents Geoff and Karen and sisters Nicola and Ruth (Getty Images)

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA: It’s no secret that saying goodbye to Liam Payne was an emotional rollercoaster for everyone who knew him, especially his One Direction bandmates and family. But one person who stepped up during this difficult time was Cheryl Cole, Liam's ex-girlfriend and the mother of his seven-year-old son Bear.

The former 'X Factor' judge, 41, reportedly acted as a “peacemaker” among the members of One Direction before the funeral. A guest at the service called it “the most emotional funeral you can imagine,” and Cheryl’s efforts to unite the band made it all the more poignant.

Not only did she help smooth over tensions among the bandmates, but she’s also been a rock for Liam’s parents Geoff and Karen, and his sisters Nicola and Ruth in the weeks following his tragic death in Buenos Aires, Argentina. 

AMERSHAM, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 20: Cheryl attends the funeral for singer Liam Payne, former member of One Direction, on November 20, 2024 in Amersham, England. Former One Direction star Liam Payne's private funeral in Amersham has been widely anticipated to draw celebrities and fans alike, wishing to pay their final respects. The singer died after falling from a hotel balcony in Buenos Aires on October 16. (Photo by Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Cheryl Cole attends the funeral of Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

The One Direction reunion didn't go quite as expected

All of Liam Payne’s former bandmates showed up to pay their respects, but the vibe was anything but warm as no one seemed to bury the hatchet. Each member arrived solo, showing just how much life had pulled them in different directions since their One Direction days.

Harry Styles leaves after the funeral of singer Liam Payne, a former member of One Direction, on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, United Kingdom (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
Harry Styles leaves after the funeral of singer Liam Payne, a former member of One Direction, on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, United Kingdom (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

Harry Styles, 30, was the first to arrive — notably escorted not by his old bandmates but by his close friends James Corden, 46, and TV producer Ben Winston, 43. Following Harry, Niall Horan, 31, showed up with his girlfriend Amelia Woolley, 27. Then came Zayn Malik, 31, and finally Louis Tomlinson, 32.

Zayn Malik attends the funeral of his former One Direction bandmate singer Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Zayn Malik attends the funeral of his former One Direction bandmate singer Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

The only moment of camaraderie glimpsed outside the church was a brief exchange between Zayn and Louis before Zayn departed alone shortly afterward.

An insider told the Daily Mail that while all the bandmates wanted to be there to honor Liam, their relationships today are far from what they used to be. “Of course, they all wanted to be there; they shared so much with Liam. But that doesn’t mean they are best friends anymore. They haven’t worked together for almost ten years—they have grown apart," they said.

The source added, “In fact, the last time they all met up, it was because Simon Cowell insisted they did after Louis’ mum died, and that was eight years ago.” 

Louis Tomlinson departs the funeral for former One Direction bandmate Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Louis Tomlinson departs the funeral of his former One Direction bandmate Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

One detail that really stood out was Harry arriving with "his super-famous friend" James Corden rather than any of the band members. “It kind of told you what you needed to know about how the boys have drifted apart,” the insider noted. 

Reports suggest Harry has very little contact with the others, and the same goes for Niall; albeit he was the last bandmate to see Liam before his death. In fact, Liam had been in Buenos Aires to catch Niall’s concert and the two reportedly had a “quick and fleeting” meeting afterward.

Niall Horan attends the funeral for former One Direction bandmate Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Niall Horan attends the funeral of his former One Direction bandmate Liam Payne on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

A farewell close to home 

The service took place in a church in Buckinghamshire, just 75 kilometers from London and close to Liam Payne’s mansion. It was a fitting location, considering it was where Liam had many special memories with his son, Bear.

When Liam visited Bear, the two would often spend time in the nearby village bonding over their shared love of dinosaurs. Fun fact: Liam had purchased a pair of life-size dinosaur statues a decade ago, and they’ve been fixtures in his garden ever since. 

Pallbearers carry the coffin of former member of One Direction singer Liam Payne at his funeral on November 20, 2024 in Amersham, England. Former One Direction star Liam Payne's private funeral in Amersham has been widely anticipated to draw celebrities and fans alike, wishing to pay their final respects. The singer died after falling from a hotel balcony in Buenos Aires on October 16. (Photo by Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Pallbearers carry the coffin of Liam Payne at his funeral on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, England (Karwai Tang/WireImage)

After the service, guests gathered in a circular marquee set up in Liam’s garden for the wake.

A friend of Liam’s explained the significance of the location, “Liam loved his garden. The dinosaurs brought out his inner child and made him happy when things around him were not going so well. And then there was Bear—what little boy wouldn’t want to play with them? It was a place of fond memories, so to remember Liam there was special."

Through all of this, Cheryl has not only been a steadying presence for Liam’s loved ones but also a pillar of strength for Bear.


LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 29: Liam Payne and Cheryl attending The Fayre of St James's Church on November 29, 2016 in London, England. (Photo by Mark Milan/GC Images)
Liam Payne and Cheryl attend The Fayre of St James's Church on November 29, 2016, in London, England (Mark Milan/GC Images)

A friend shared, “Cheryl always dreamed of having the perfect family, but she has had to deal with the most awful tragedy head-on. But she’s tough, and if anyone can get through this, she can.” 

AMERSHAM, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 20: Karen Payne and Geoff Payne, parents of Liam, and Cheryl Tweedy leave following the funeral of singer Liam Payne, former member of One Direction, on November 20, 2024 in Amersham, United Kingdom. Former One Direction star Liam Payne's private funeral in Amersham has been widely anticipated to draw celebrities and fans alike, wishing to pay their final respects. The singer died after falling from a hotel balcony in Buenos Aires on October 16. (Photo by Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
Liam Payne's parents Karen and Geoff Payne and Cheryl Cole leave after his funeral on November 20, 2024, in Amersham, United Kingdom (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

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